There are moments in life when the path ahead feels anything but clear.
It’s like walking—or driving—through fog. You know, deep down, you're heading in the right direction… but you can't quite see the path forward.
Should I turn here? Keep going? Am I even on the right road?
I've been there numerous times. Divorce. Downsizing—not once, or twice, but three times. A cancer diagnosis. Each of those circumstances—those forks in the road of an extraordinarily average life—brought its version of fear, uncertainty, and yes, fog.
And yet, I kept going.
Not because I had all the answers, but because I made a choice. I picked up my red marker and circled a date on the calendar, and in that action, I declared it was time to put myself first—my needs, my growth, my life.
This post isn’t a checklist or a how-to. It’s a reminder that perspective—how you choose to see your situation—changes everything.
One of my favorite metaphors captures this beautifully:
“Just when the caterpillar th...
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Unexpected change. We've all experienced it.
I'm talking about the kind where you wake up at 6 am, all bright-eyed and bushy-tailed ready to conquer your day. You hit every green light, get a front row parking spot, and there's still hot coffee in the pot when you arrive to work.
And then, it's suddenly 10 am, and you're at home again, sitting on your sofa, staring blankly at a rerun of Criminal Minds, wondering exactly how you apply for unemployment.
We're all hit with unexpected changes in ways we can't fathom - and shouldn't even attempt to ponder. So what does one do to prepare for the unexpected - without making yourself crazy in the process? Find a mechanism you can rely on to help you successfully navigate your new landscape.
Change is always right around the corner - just like girls scouts at the grocery store during cookie season.
Change can happen in an instant - just like losing an hour of your day at 2 am during daylight savings time.
To build up your "...
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